Life Does Not Have to be Hard

When we are not clear that we are worthy, worthwhile and valuable beings, we believe that life must be hard. This belief will bring into your experience difficult situations that you will have to fight your way through. On the other end of the fight, you can sit back and marvel at what you have done. You have bragging rights about what you have been through and come through. You are a fighter! It may be difficult for you to understand that you are creating these situations to support the subconscious belief that you do not deserve to live a joy-filled or peaceful life.

Just because you can take a punch does not mean that you must make yourself a punching bag! When we learn how to duck and dodge the punches life sends our way, this process of living can become an exhausting habit. There are people who are in the habit of living hard lives. When you expect to be punched, and you are always looking for the fist, it comes, again and again. Eventually, you become punch drunk - waiting to be knocked down so that you can prove that you cannot be or will not be knocked out.

Life does not have to be hard! There is a good reason for you to be beaten up by the conditions in your life. If this is happening to you check out your expectations. Check to make sure that you are not waiting for the next disaster to strike, just to prove that you can take it.

You may not have been aware of the role your thoughts, words, and expectations play in the creation of your life experiences. You may be creating pain in your life as a reflection of the belief that you are not worthy of anything else. Refuse to fight your way through life...open your mind and your heart, asking that they be filled with a vision and an expectation of a joy-filled and peaceful future.